Arthur Lowe was born on 12 April 1938 in Rotherhithe, within sight and sound of the river that would shape his entire life. The son of a lighterman himself, Arthur left school at fourteen to begin his apprenticeship on the Thames, and by the time he qualified he could read the tide, the traffic, and the moods of the river better than most people read a book.
For over forty years Arthur worked the water, guiding barges of timber, grain, and general cargo between the Pool of London and the wharves further upstream. Watermen of his generation were a tight-knit, unshowy breed, and Arthur carried their values with him for the rest of his life: turn up on time, do the job properly, and look out for the fellow next to you.
In 1962 he married Margaret "Peggy" Ansell, and together they raised two children, Susan and Michael, in a small house near Richmond Bridge that Arthur was immensely proud of. Peggy predeceased him in 2019, after fifty-seven years of marriage, and Arthur missed her every single day that followed.
Retirement in the early 2000s didn't slow him down much. He took on an allotment plot behind the recreation ground and turned it into something close to a local legend, with prize marrows most autumns and a standing offer of runner beans to anyone who walked past looking half-interested. He kept wicket for the village cricket team's veterans' side well into his seventies, and after that could still be found most Saturdays in a deckchair by the boundary, offering opinions on the bowling that nobody had asked for but everybody enjoyed.
In his workshop at the bottom of the garden, Arthur built painstaking scale models of the barges and lighters he'd spent his working life aboard, several of which now sit in the clubhouse of the rowing club he supported for decades. He also never lost his love of fishing, and could recite, in detail, the story of every notable catch he ever landed, and quite a few he didn't.
Arthur is survived by his children Susan and Michael, four grandchildren, and a great-grandchild he doted on outrageously. He will be remembered by everyone who knew him as steady, funny, endlessly kind, and entirely at home on the river.
Family flowers only, please. Those who would like to make a donation in Arthur's memory are asked to consider the RNLI, a cause close to the heart of a man who spent his whole life on the water.